Do you ever feel like you are on a hiding to nothing? Feel like you are damned if you do and damned if you don’t?
I think we all go through times like this when no matter what you say or do, it will be misconstrued and quite often completely blown into something it is not. Some people also just hear what they want to and say one thing and do another. These people are incredibly deceptive; they too are incredibly manipulative, masters at it! I REALLY don’t like people like.
When though is enough, enough. When do you say, to this point and no further!
What are the consequences of saying that?
Some people are going to continue to live in their vile worlds which for the most part is okay but not when they make it part of your life. They want you to live in their drama with them, because that is what they enjoy and thrive on, drama, and they continue to spiral out of control all the while holding onto you trying to pull you down too.
I find it all very tiring and ageing and so unnecessary. How can you just exclude these people from your life when it is not that easy to do. Do you just ignore it and hope it will go away, when you know it won’t and the sad eventuality will come to pass when you will have to be in their company again which makes you sick to your stomach at the mere thought of it.
How many times must you hit your head against a wall before you explode, before you get sick, before it’s too late!
Why do some people not hear its enough now! No more! Will they ever stop placing guilt on others and suctioning others into their miserable indignant sorry lives!
How do you find the switch to implement knowing the only way forward is its not worth dealing with people who have distorted perceptions, making sense out of nonsense.
I wish it was as easy as people say and to turn the switch to put these kind of people into perspective, accepting they are just inherently horrible people and to not let it worry you. If I had that magic wand, I would use it to heal our whole world.